Goodbye Marriage, Hello New Adventure
Original Post: November 2015
After thirty years of marriage, I find myself coming to the end of holy matrimony. I have to say, on one hand, I would have never thought this could happen to me in a million years and on the other hand… I knew at the wedding that something was off. Now it is goodbye marriage, hello new adventure.
My soon to be former husband (SBFH) wanted the house. After all, it sits on his prized golf course like a great big penis: as long as he has that house he is the man. So, I found an apartment, moved out one weekday and here I am in a one-room loft with my dog. I have been here for three months and I love it. I feel content and safe and at ease, without the stomach ache I had every day for the last, oh I don’t know, 15 years. I feel good in my own skin. And the longer I am in my new life, the more excited I get about my future.
I would love it if you would stick with me in this chapter of my life: it is going to be a blast!
Paula
Paula, I am your friend who forgot to show you. I have lived you for a million years,but forgot to tell you. My life will soon have one son on his way to college, and hopefully more time to show you that I am your friend. With a heart filled with love for you, Tonda
Paula, I am your friend who forgot to show you. I have lived you for a million years,but forgot to tell you. My life will soon have one son on his way to college, and hopefully more time to show you that I am your friend. With a heart filled with love for you, Tonda
You give me hope. Thank you.
Hope is always a motivator. Thank you Elaine!
You are so right, Elaine. As soon as I get into a position of hope, my whole attitude changes.