Travel
Over the past week and a half I have been traveling some for business and some for pleasure. And, I traveled solo. So I came up with the 5 best reasons to enjoy traveling alone, While that’s not something that has ever bothered me I know so many women who don’t like to travel solo. OK, I understand that dinner conversation isn’t great when there is no one across the table, and I attended a wedding this weekend where most of my dance partners were 11-year-olds. Other than that, let me give you some reasons to enjoy travel alone.
Shopping
I don’t think I need to say any more about this topic except that it is so great not to have to justify purchases. I felt no need to ask anyone if my bottom looked big in these pants. I bought four pairs of shoes, three of which I would have left behind had I not been solo, and I did not have to go to a golf store in fairness to anyone. It was all me, me, me.
My Time is My Own
If I want to sleep in, I can. If I want to stay up into the wee hours of the night to finish a book or binge watch a series, I can do that. I can’t do that when I am on someone else’s schedule. Or, I can schedule something super early, come back and nap if necessary, then head out again. I am on my time.
I Get All the Attention
My children live across the country. I visit them often and when I do I get 100% of their attention. I don’t have to share them with anyone. We do what they want to do and nothing else. If they want to see a movie or go to a play or shop for stuff for their house, we do it. I get one-on-one time while we run errands and pal around together. I can’t put a price on that. I just love being with them in their daily lives.
Not A Sport in Sight
No matter where I am, no matter what teams are in town, I do not have to go to a sporting event! If you are like me, you have had your share of sports with your children and your spouse or friends. I am as big a fan as the next girl, but I do not travel for sports any longer and I love that. I know you know what I am talking about. No rain gear unless I am going to a rainforest! While this may sound like my own pet-peeve, everyone has their thing that they have to do when vacationing with their crowd. When I am with my children we will often go for a run: you can bet when I am alone I don’t pack running shoes! And play tickets are easy to come by when the number is one.
Eating Alone
This is a big one for some women. Not everyone likes eating alone and I agree that day after day it can get a little rough. But I went to a brunch at a lovely resort where you must have a reservation well in advance for brunch. I walked up and asked if I could get a table and when I said table for one the hostess brightened up and said she could accommodate me. Both of us couldn’t believe it! Not only did I get a table, I got a table on the window that was a little tight for two. How lucky was I?
This brunch was the best, and I didn’t waste one inch of my plate on protein at this beautiful buffet: bread pudding, waffle, biscuits, bananas foster, strawberry shortcake. Would I do that with others watching? The answer is heck no (let me just say that I did not eat any else the rest of the day).
If I am having dinner by myself I always eat at the bar. Usually, I can get a conversation going with someone and it’s great when that person is a local so I can get some tips and suggestions on local attractions; dinner and a virtual tour!
I have several friends who would not think of traveling alone, but I think if they tried it just one time they would be hooked. And if you can pepper it with trips with people you love then you have the best of all worlds!
What was your favorite trip that you did solo? What tips would you give others who want to take the plunge?
Read MoreI know you are tired of me talking about maxi-dresses, but they are so comfy and honestly, so affordable. And, this past holiday weekend was the perfect setting to get lots of wear out of this one because it was so stinking hot! Not complaining, just fact. I think this olive green color is so flattering but I don’t see it on a lot of women. You can pair it with navy, black or a neutral sandal and you will look like a million bucks, but you don’t have to spend much for this one on Amazon.
Read MoreI love all the floral fashion this Spring, but for me, a touch of floral goes a long way. I don’t feel comfortable wearing a lot of big print on my big body! So when I saw these shoes while traveling in Mexico I grabbed them. I can wear them with anything Navy, or with my green maxi dress and they look great.
Read MoreIf there is one piece of clothing that I can’t live without it is a black maxi dress. And, I definitely can’t travel without it. You can use it for everything: pair it with a jacket, sequin or denim, and it looks like a million bucks. A great jersey maxi dress can easily be hand-washed while you travel and you don’t have to worry about spills because they never show. I wore my maxi dress across Europe with my daughter and it was a dream. I even used it for the plane because I could tuck my feet up under me to sleep (thus the hand-washing). I wore it with a leather jacket when it was chilly during the day and with a wrap for evening. C’est Magnifique!
I like pieces that I can get lots of different uses out of and this is it. Amazon has one just like the one I am wearing in the photo and it even has pockets. It’s perfect and you can’t beat the price. I could sleep in it if I had to. I use my black maxi dress so much that I also have one that is off the shoulder with a ruffle, for hot summer evenings, and I have a sleeveless maxi dress as well. My arms are not for public consumption and I don’t want to frighten young children so that one I wear with a jacket or with another short sleeve t-shirt underneath. Options, options, options.
For the price of these on Amazon, I am thinking that a navy maxi might be just the thing for Summer Holidays like Memorial Day and July Fourth. Or think of a wine red maxi with big silver jewelry, maybe with some turquoise mixed in. You will be the bell of the ball. And I found another style here that is super forgiving so I ordered it in an army green, a color that I find very flattering on almost everyone.
Please tell me about the must-have in your closet.
Read MoreWhenever I have a long day, especially when I am traveling, I feel like my outfit always includes a piece by Eileen Fisher. Of course, it is black (sorry, just the way it is with me). Maybe with lighter pants if I am going wild! It is comfortable, easy care most of the time, and I can just hang it up while I take a shower to get the few wrinkles to steam out. So, today I have everything from a gyno appointment to a taping of the national anthem with Harmony Project, then meeting a friend for drinks. My tunic, which is sheer at the bottom so I don’t look like I am wearing a tent, will look great all day, even if I spill a marg on it! If Red hadn’t jumped in the photo, you would actually be able to see how good it looks, but he just wouldn’t leave me alone so, a star is born. This tunic is still shown on their website as available so check it out. It is one of my faves!
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