I am telling you about one of my favorite things again because I am so addicted that I can’t leave home without it. This Grande Primer brushes on your eyelashes creating a white layer that sticks like glue, then you brush your mascara on top of that and I am telling you it is a game changer. If I forget to put it on and go straight to the mascara, I look I am not wearing makeup at all. It makes that much of a difference. I will even take off all my eye makeup and start over if I forget it. I used to wear false eyelashes every day and now I don’t need them. I also use their Grande Lash every night before I go to bed and my lashes are growing for the first time ever. Try both. I promise you will honestly see a difference.
Read MoreI love all the floral fashion this Spring, but for me, a touch of floral goes a long way. I don’t feel comfortable wearing a lot of big print on my big body! So when I saw these shoes while traveling in Mexico I grabbed them. I can wear them with anything Navy, or with my green maxi dress and they look great.
Read MoreThink about this: are you the woman you want to be? Really, if you listed all the attributes that you would possess if you were exactly who you want to be, do you have them? That thought came to me during a conversation with a coach that I hired to help me move forward more intentionally. I thought I knew all the answers by now but I began to think about what pieces are missing, and how I can change that. As much as I write about embracing change, I am not doing that as fully as I thought I was, and I wouldn’t be surprised if you might be in the same boat.
I believe that for the first time I am totally aware that while I appear to be making everything work out great on the outside, I still have too many demons on the inside and they are holding me back from being the woman I want to be. So, you know what, it is time to change that and my hope is that you will join me. Take a look at these steps to getting closer to being the woman you want to be.
What is Missing in Your Life?
Honestly, if you had a perfect life, what would it look like? When you are daydreaming, and we all do, what is that dream? Where do you live? Who is with you? What does your average day look like? Are you the rockstar of your own life? Of course, you are, it’s your dream. Allow yourself to think about what your best life would look like. Not your win the lottery life but your best real life. What is missing from that life and do you really want it, or you just say you do? If you honestly do want to change your life, then how can you make it happen?
How Can You Get There?
To get to a new restaurant you need directions right? Well, if you need help moving forward toward your perfect life, do you know where to get that assistance? Tomorrow, what action will you take? Are you moving forward in the process, or are you just paying lip service to it? What professionals can help you make that dream a reality? Or friends? Or colleagues? Or family members?
Are You Sure It Is What You Want?
Be honest with yourself. Even though you say you would like to quit working, maybe the reason you haven’t is that it isn’t really what you want. If what you say and what you do are not the same, there is a fly in the ointment? Something isn’t quite right. Focusing your attention inward will eventually lead you to what you genuinely care about. When your daily activities are not aligning with where you want to go, something is off. Here’s an idea: write down what your perfect life would look like. Match it up to what your life is right now. Do they align? If the answer is yes, yay! If the answer is no, then maybe it isn’t what you want, or maybe you need to focus more on that piece of your life so you can actually get there.
When you align what you value with how you live your life, it doesn’t get any better. You are living your life as you intend. You are who you say you are and that is peace of mind.
Read MoreYou can use mirrors to lighten up your home and bring the sunshine into dark areas, it’s true. I have always used lots of mirrors in my homes. I often use a rectangular mirror as a serving tray for charcuterie, and that one I bought at T.J.Maxx,. It was inexpensive so I don’t worry much about breaking it. And I learned a great trick when I moved into my one-room loft: mirrors can bring the light into your space. In my apartment I have floor-to-ceiling windows on the front side, but that’s pretty much it. The walls are mostly brick and the ceiling is exposed beams and ductwork. There is plenty of light, but it is all on the front side, leaving me in the dark the further into the place I go. I have a very large mirror, maybe 3′ x 6′, and when I moved in I stood it up against a wall temporarily. When I went to move it I quickly realized that it was actually providing light. It acts as a window. The reflection the mirror provides lights up that part of the apartment and it is too dark without it.
There are limitless styles of mirrors: currently, I am on a mission to find a round mirror and I have fallen in love with this one on Amazon. The color is called Spruce and looks like a green-gray. Love, love, love. The round shape feels updated and fresh. You can find so many options in all price ranges and they will instantly open up your home. Bring sunlight into a corner that is away from the windows with a morror and see what a difference it makes. I think you will be amazed and how bright and airy your home will feel with the addition.
Let me know if you have a great use for a mirror in your home.
Read MoreIf there is one piece of clothing that I can’t live without it is a black maxi dress. And, I definitely can’t travel without it. You can use it for everything: pair it with a jacket, sequin or denim, and it looks like a million bucks. A great jersey maxi dress can easily be hand-washed while you travel and you don’t have to worry about spills because they never show. I wore my maxi dress across Europe with my daughter and it was a dream. I even used it for the plane because I could tuck my feet up under me to sleep (thus the hand-washing). I wore it with a leather jacket when it was chilly during the day and with a wrap for evening. C’est Magnifique!
I like pieces that I can get lots of different uses out of and this is it. Amazon has one just like the one I am wearing in the photo and it even has pockets. It’s perfect and you can’t beat the price. I could sleep in it if I had to. I use my black maxi dress so much that I also have one that is off the shoulder with a ruffle, for hot summer evenings, and I have a sleeveless maxi dress as well. My arms are not for public consumption and I don’t want to frighten young children so that one I wear with a jacket or with another short sleeve t-shirt underneath. Options, options, options.
For the price of these on Amazon, I am thinking that a navy maxi might be just the thing for Summer Holidays like Memorial Day and July Fourth. Or think of a wine red maxi with big silver jewelry, maybe with some turquoise mixed in. You will be the bell of the ball. And I found another style here that is super forgiving so I ordered it in an army green, a color that I find very flattering on almost everyone.
Please tell me about the must-have in your closet.
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